Pillars: History/Buddhism/Shinto/culture
wwoof Japan (start Y5,500 membership approximately 6 months before we want to go)
Ryokan Association (search by region)
Japanese Guesthouse Association (search by region)
Overnight temple stays (most in Koya-san, Kyoto and Nare). If you go to Japan with your family, DO A TEMPLE STAY. Oh my word ours was the coolest thing ever. (We did Eko-in in the Koya-san complex; see below.)
This booking site is the best one, with direct links to the temples' own web sites if they have them and low mark-ups if you book through them.
This site comes up first in google searches but their rate quotes are often out of date. (search by region). Temple-specific reviews in English are a little hard to track down, but honestly -- it's Japan, you won't go wrong.
This one is well-reviewed...
National Park guesthouses run by the Department of Environment throughout the country. They look fun.
JR
Railpass (as of 5/11: 14 day approx. $757 green/558 regular; 7 day approx. $468 green/350 regular)
Nagoya:
Stay (Night 1) in
Toyota Castle Hotel (rental or airport bus ~70 minutes). Update: It was hard to get information about accommodations in Toyota City; I guess it's off the beaten path. The Castle was more than adequate. Very comfortable rooms, very helpful staff, excellent breakfast.
See (Day 2):
Toyota factory tour (M-F, English tours are 10:30-1). This was GREAT.
On to:
Ise Jingu (peninsula SE of Nagoya; maybe 2 hours? from Toyota)
Stay (nights 2 and 3) in
Hoshide-kan (direct site
here; TA feedback
here) in Ise Jingu. This place was spectacular, though English skills are quite limited (fortunately we had a Japanese speaker in our midst) and like most of traditional Japan, it lacks central heating.
Backups: Ise City Hotel nearby (LP); or Asakichi ryokan (Frommers); Daisoso ryokan in tiny village of Daio (Fodors); or
Ishiyama-so in significantly more remote island of Yokoyama-jima (Frommer review
here; sole TA review in Japanese)
See (Days 3 and 4): Ise Jingu Shinto grand shrines; Ise-Shima National Park; fishing villages with cormorant fisherman; pearl divers and
public onsen in Toba (onsen appears, hilariously, to be part of Spain Village which also features flamenco dancing... - scroll down to item #5 on peninsula highlights); small village atmosphere. Also on the peninsula is the
Edo Wonderland (Frommer review
here), a theme park devoted to the Shogun era, with demonstrations and geisha show.
Stop en route (Day 4) in:
Iga Ueno (100 km SW of Nagoya; on JR line)
To see:
Iga-Ryu Ninja museum ("energetic demonstrations of... throwing swords, daggers and sickles") open Wed-Mon 11-3; also Basho memorial and gardens in adjacent Ueno Park
On to Kyoto (maybe 2 hours, excluding stop?)
Kyoto:
Sleep (nights 4 and 5)
Yachiyo ryokan next to Nanzen-ji temple (Fodors rec; expensive but looks lovely). This is a "modern" ryokan; not as charming as the "traditional" ones, but on the other hand it does have central heating, not to be underestimated when traveling with children. Very good location.
Backups: Westin Miyako: central locaction - TA feedback
here;
Hyatt Regency Kyoto: ALXN rec
See:
Kinkakuji (15th c/ rebuilt) Golden Pavillion and nearby Ryoanji Temple (Ryoanji has well-rated
restaurant within the zen rock garden) NW corner. We did eat at the restaurant and it was FAB. They gave us a private room (there were 9 of us all together, including boisterous kids) overlooking a gorgeous enclosed rock garden. Just lovely.
Ginkakuji Silver Pavillion, Philosophers' Pathway, and Nanzenji temple all near our ryokan (see Frommer's walking tour for restaurant stops, including
Junsei bento lunch in a garden and
Goemonjaya for quicker noodles)
Sanjusangen-do (Next door to Hyatt) 1001 Buddhas ALXN
Kyoto International Community House - can arrange
home visits with local family (must appear in person, and show passports). We didn't do this -- as mentioned, there were 9 of us and it just seemed too unwieldy -- but with a smaller crowd I'd definitely do it.
Klexon - cultural exchange association with emphasis on Japanese - English practice; has weekly Tuesday night meetings and organizes BBQs, excursions, volunteer work etc
Kiyomizu-dera district - old pedestrian street with old architecture with tea shops, pagodas, etc (Fodor star)
Outside Kyoto (um, I think):
? Ninn-ji Omuru-Kaikan
temple (fish dinner; geared for children) or
? Myoshin-ji Daishin-in
temple (outskirts of town), or
? Jyorengein
temple (mountain on outskirts of town), or
Koya-san temple complex:
Check out
Dai-mon complex of 120 temples, monasteries, schools set in mountain valley (World Heritage site). This is the coolest place I've ever been to in Japan. Unbelievable. We only stayed one night and I was so, so sorry we hadn't planned on longer. Thus far, only Japanese nationals and middle aged gay couples seem to have discovered it. It *is* rather difficult to get to -- we were in a rental car, and the roads are rather hair-raising (good condition, but very winding and narrow -- would NOT want to do it in snowy conditions) and the public transport looks to be rather a nightmare. So.worth.it, though.
Stay (Night 8): one of the many
temples - try:
Eko-in (LP and Frommers) We did this one, and it was GREAT. Wide polished hardwood floors throughout, beautiful gardens, spacious and pretty rooms, very plain/zen but peaceful and attractive baths, excellent (vegan) dinner. (No central heating, of course.) Only one of the monks spoke extensive English (our Japanese speaker had departed by this poing), but all were tremendously friendly and helpful. We joined them for the ancestor memorial service and the fire ceremony in the morning -- both fascinating. They have both wifi and beer-u, for those who care about such things.
Rengejo-in (Fodors)
Ichizyo-in (appears to be centrally located; can accommodate kids; does calligraphy)
Kumagai-ji (dunno a blessed thing about this one, but it's so tiny and has an English website and looks so dang cute! Let's at least stop by and check it out)
Then down to
Yunomine or Kawa-yu onsen region
Stay (nights 9,10,11):
Try in Yunomine:
Adumaya (~Y11,000 pp/night) *the bridge to Yunomine was washed out during our stay, so we couldn't try this*
in Kawa-yu:
Fujiya (~Y16,000 pp/night and much larger)
Note: This
site is nothing but a list of links to Wakayama region ryokans' individual sites, but since getting direct contact can be so difficult, it's useful to keep on hand. The various booking sites are often the only way to work around the language issues and no-credit-card issues; but they are poorly equipped to deal with any complications such as children, or dinner one night room-only the next, etc.
Final night: back in Sheraton...
Last night near Kansai airport:
(I'm pretty sure that) all of
these are within a 40 minute train ride (south) of the airport. Of them, maybe try
Mantei onsen...
Or, for the firm of heart, Rural village excursion:
Start with
Hygogo tourist board guide to pick one
Then pick a
ryokan with onsen from this or one of the nation-wide associations
Volunteer
guides who want to practice English available in Kobe, Hanshin, and variety of other towns (no guide fee; just expenses)
Osaka:
Noodle factory museum - this was actually a highlight! We were the only gaijins there (but all the instructions were helpfully printed in English). Especially good with kids, although it appeared, implausibly, to be a popular date spot... (Japan is so excellent...)
Hilton Osaka ALXN
Shitennoji Temple 6th c. (!! and not rebuilt!!) Oldest original Buddhist temple in Japan; TA
reviews very positive though many are focused on flea market that takes place on 21st of each month
Osaka Castle (Osaka-jo Koen-mae station) Reconstructed 16th c. ALXN. This was actually terrific.
Sumiyoshi-taisha (Sumihoshi Koen station) established 3rd c. (!!!) - one of oldest Shinto shrines in Japan; predates Buddhism; guardian diety patron of sailors
Buraku Theatre (Noh-style but with puppets; Osaka is world center); near "essential Osaka experience" of Dotombori-dori nightlife scene
Osaka
Aquarium: TA
reviews very positive; Fodor starred; has street performers on weekends. This was also great.
Human Rights Museum (Ashihara station)
Hattori Ryokuchi Koen (Ryokuchi Koen station) - Museum of Old Japanese Farmhouses with outdoor Kabuki, re-enactors etc
Mimiu Soba hot pot till you drop :o) ALXN
Tsururhashi district (Tsuruhashi station - Korea Town) for poke-o-rama and yaki-niku BBQ